|Hi Janice surely the onus is on you.|
When you upload surely you add to a person to (one or More GOOD HOUSEKEEPING)
You would be able to find them easily, as you would have some idea where you are putting them
You Have 2 Albums on one site and 14 albums on the other.
At the bottom you have an index of Names with Photos.
You have what you want, but as I see it ,you did not use TP correctly to name your Photos
There is a lot that we have to do ourselves with our own Site
As you state
Taking the time to put names on each of more than 5,000 photos would be a nightmare and it would never happen.
That is completely up to you
Although TP only states you have 1379 Photographs on your two sites 3621 Missing